Spanking Kate James

First of all, Pandora Blake, one of the many wonderful models for Northern Spanking, is celebrating her Blogiversary.  For her Blogiversary spanking she has volunteered to take one stroke of the cane for every membership join on Northern Spanking.  All you need to do is go to Northern Spanking, join their website, browse the amazing videos and photosets, and leave a comment on Pandora’s Blog with your username so Paul (one half of the Northern Spanking team) can verify it.  Joining NSI is a good idea, but this little ‘contest’ ends on August 24th.  If you miss the date, don’t be shy to join Northern Spanking anyway.

Here’s another little one for you.  I’d do something similar with the username’s but I don’t think I could get Paul and Lucy to verify them for me.  If you join Northern Spanking and leave a comment on my most recent photo set (and let me know here) I will post another naked picture of myself.  But you gotta do it by August 28th.

On another note, I’ve been ridiculously busy.  Max and I celebrated our first anniversary with a wonderful dinner and a movie date (we saw Pineapple Express).  It was a good night.  He finally got his computer back which means I have mine back, so I’ll be online more often.  And I will be adding the gallery I’ve been working on, sometime soon! :)

Kate James

In order to see if my blog hits go up if I have a naked picture on here, I am posting one.  I’ve never posted a picture of myself completely nude from the front before.  This picture was taken in the beautiful bathtub in Paul and Lucy’s house in Glasgow.  Either Paul or Lucy was the photographer - they switched on and off so am not sure.  This isn’t a part of a set for Northern Spanking, just a personal photo taken for me.

Enjoy.

Kate

Limits have come up recently on a lot of forums and discussion boards - mostly in preparation for the upcoming Shadow Lane Party in Las Vegas, in just two weeks.  I’m not going, but seeing as how I am actively seeking casual play partners, I thought I’d toss my personal limits out there.

Personal Limits and Scene Turn Offs

1. Nothing sexual. I have a boyfriend and I am very happy.  Don’t bother trying to make a sexual pass at me while playing, or in discussion before playing.  If we’re in the middle of a scene, it will stop immediately.  If in correspondence, don’t expect a reply.

2. No toys with holes in them. No I don’t want to try out your neat paddle with holes.  I don’t like holes.  I don’t like them in paddles, straps, spoons, anything.  This is a hard limit and absolutely non-negotiable in any sense.

3. Plastic implements are off limits. I simply don’t like plastic toys touching me.  They tend to be lighter, and stingier, which is a huge turn off for me in most senses.  Plastic paddles, canes, and other toys are of no appeal.

4. If the paddle isn’t two feet long and made to land squarely on both buns, I don’t want a double bum smack. A ping pong paddle is not a good choice for a butt crack smack.  I don’t want anything crossing both cheeks should cross them and land directly on both.

5. If I wanted you to spank the insides of my thighs/butt crack, I’d ask. This is one of those areas of my body which is off limits to almost all except for my boyfriend.  Intimate parts should never be hit unless I squirm and in turn, your implement misses it’s intended target.  Accidents happen.  They do not happen more than once in the same place.

6. No sensation play. Please don’t run your fingernails, bath brush/hairbrush bristles, or anything else usually involved in sensation play, over my bum.  Especially after it’s been spanked.  I have incredibly sensitive skin and the feeling of something touching it like that, is unbelievably unpleasant and uncomfortable.

7.  I do not play with women. I do not allow them to spank me.  I do not spank them.  I do not like to play with another bottom and one top.  I simply don’t enjoy being with women in the scene in this sense.  I have several good female friends within in the scene, but the number whom I will play side by side with are few and far between.  Please don’t ask, and please don’t press.

8. My daddy doesn’t care if I was rude to you. No you cannot have his email or phone number.  He doesn’t want to hear about how I mistreated another ‘dom’.  Chances are, if I’ve told you off, you either deserved it, or ticked me off.  Either way, he doesn’t care.  If I’ve been needlessly rude to you out of my own bad mood, chances are I’ll apologize so be patient.  I’m learning to control my temper.

9.  Do not touch me, unless I’ve already asked you to play, or agreed to play with you.  It’s creepy, and gross.

10. Panty wedgies. There is nothing worse than having a spanker pull your panties up into your ass crack like a thong.  If I’d have wanted my underwear to go up my ass, I’d have worn a thong.  If I say you can spank my bare bum, use the extra muscle power to pull them down.

Kate

I recently deleted the page about sessions.  There is a reason for that.  I am no longer doing paid sessions.  Not exclusively.  I want fun, caring play partners.  People whom I can play with casually, regularly.  I won’t stop people from making donations, but come on, I enjoy spanking, and I want to play damnit!  Coming to NY? Give me a call :)

Kate

I have been ultra extra busy lately, but on top of that, Max’s computer is being fixed by Apple again and Lord only knows how long that could take. His work positively requires him to have a computer handy, and he’s been doing a lot of seminars and pre-project work this week, which means that by the time he gets home, I am bloody knackered and don’t have the energy to get online, even for a brief period. The extent of my activities has been checking email - not that there’s been much of that either.

I am cooking right now, portabella mushroom & provolone ravioli, peas & mushrooms w/fresh pressed garlic, and brown rice. Rice takes forever to cook, so everything else has to wait until it’s basically finished. We really like the ravioli from Trader Joe’s - it’s super good. The only one I wasn’t a huge fan of, was the Lobster Ravioli. Their Spinach ravioli is good, and these tonight smell good and I haven’t even started cooking them yet.

In just two weeks and change the Shadow Lane party will go down at the Suncoast in Vegas. We aren’t going. This has me a lot more down than I expected it to. Last summer, going to the SL party was a very lucky happening on my part. It turned out to be an amazing weekend/trip with a good friend, and getting to see, meet, and make more amazing friends. I am bummed we won’t be going, as it’d be Max’s first Shadow Lane party in a few years.

(continued writing today, Saturday)

I spent most of the morning cleaning out my closet.  I have a huge black garbage bag full of clothes that I am putting on Freecycle.  Hopefully someone bites.  If not, I’ll bring it all to Goodwill.  A friend of Max’s is coming by tonight but I won’t really get to see her since I am babysitting from 9 till late probably.

Anyway, that’s it for now.  As soon as my spanking life picks up, I’ll post about it.

Kate

I wish I was a schmoozy Manhattanite who could say that we go to the Hampton’s every weekend. But I’m not. In fact, I’m not even entirely sure where the Hampton’s are… Anyway, we do occassionally take a weekend getaway to my grandparents house, on a beautiful lake in North Western NJ. This will be the first time in nearly 4 summers I’ve spent any significant amount of time there. Long story in that. Anyway, we’ll be stealing away Friday out to the lake until Sunday. Also the NJ State Fair is in town, so we’ll go out there for a bit. It’s something from my childhood and until I went away to school, I hadn’t missed a summer going. My old teachers work the information booths and friends at the 4H and Boyscout tents. It’ll be neat.

A weekend of sun, water, good food, water skiing, tubing, and sun bathing. Here is a picture of the lake last fall…

Kate James

I’ve been horridly exhausted lately from working. I started 4 days a week this week, and it’s been killing me. I have Wednesdays off which is great, but I’ve been busy every evening, and all day Wednesday, all week, and I am just so tired. I am really looking forward to this weekend and the coming OTK night here at Paddles. My friend scChris just recently moved to CT to finish up his schooling and he’ll be coming down, which is super neat. Sandy and Radagast will be there later on in the evening, and a few other people recently mentioned on the Shadow Lane bulletin board, that they’d be coming too. It seems like it’s going to be a super night, so I am excited for the break from baby bouncing.

On the upside I drank a butt-load of water today. I am trying to lose weight again…I need to lose at least 40lbs…probably 50 would be better. Yeah, I don’t look as huge as I am. Thank God MY camera, shaves off 10 lbs instead of adding it, or I’d be screwed. Anyway, here’s a picture of said huge ass…enjoy! I’ll make a better post as soon as my brain settles down.

Kate James

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Part 1

My day started with 4 cane strokes and 2 smacks from a paddle made by my friend Kitty, out of a Palm Frond…honest, I watched her make it! I had left them on our guest-room bed because I’d showed them to a friend the night before. Max taught me why I shouldn’t leave implements around. A little bit later after I spoke with a friend from Boston, and invited him down to the Sinny Sub Space party, I got more hand spankings while playing Wii and getting frustrated as well as a few just because ones.

My friend Jack arrived around 5 and we popped out to get some Thai food, but not before he demonstrated his traditional English slipper on me. It was his father’s when he was younger, and they lived in the UK for a brief period. Max made me bring a chair out of the kitchen and that’s what Jack sat on when I went over his knee. Max watched as he spanked me (for the first time!!!) with his hand, and then with that slipper. I’d rather be caned, then slippered. Hands down. Then he said “Would you like to try?” and handed it across the coffee table to Max who was sitting on the couch. Jack had me stand up and I hopped around a bit.

Max had the slipper in his hand now, and told me to lay across his knee. I refused at first but then he used my full name so I went. He didn’t use it any more lightly than Jack did, and I was squirming and squealing in no time at all. Before the slippering started, we were debating between Thai and Malaysian food. I prefer the Malaysian and the boys wanted Thai. In the middle of this spanking I apologized for anything I might have done, and said we could even have Thai food. Not before asking to be caned instead of slippered though.

Not quickly enough, it was over. Max let me up and I danced around the living-room. Both enjoyed watching me clutch my bum and then put some shorts on so we could go eat.

Part 2 coming soon! Pictures from part 2, are below. You can just imagine how the party went based on the pictures!

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I got a Wii! Do you have a Wii? So yesterday, I got up and put on a cute brown dress I got at Old Navy (on sale and with a giftcard…don’t you LOVE that?! it’s like…double the fun!) and headed into the city to meet my Uncle B for lunch. He took me to Ellen’s Stardust Diner which was super touristy, but fun non-the-less. As I was getting ready, I was in a video chat with a friend and took this snapshot. It’s not a terribly clear shot of me and I am distracted but my hair’s gotton long and I like the picture, so I decided to post it :)

My goodness, did you want bare bottom shots? I hadn’t even thought of such a thing! I mean…well…ok! My co-star is my wonderful friend Bob! Enjoy ;)

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First off…I’ve read so many news stories, I may get mixed up in my own retelling.  Feel free to correct me if I’m wrong!  Also, Niki’s post kicks my posts ass, and mine is mostly written out of frustration.

If Niki and Amy get to be, then why can’t I?  Niki puts it best.  As some of you are, I am sure aware, the British Tabloid paper “News of The World” has recently latched onto the fetish community via the former F1 racing boss, Max Mosley. A private spanking session was organized between Mosley and several popular UK spanking models.  One of these, is known as ‘Woman E’.  Woman E deserves absolutely nothing as far as I’m concerned.  She deserves no privacy, no sensitivity, nothing.  Why? Woman E hid a camera in her bra and filmed this private session.  FILMED it!!! None of the models, nor Mosley knew of this, until the story hit the papers.  It turns out the paper had found out an M15 agent’s wife was into this S&M stuff.  They negotiated to pay Woman E a rather large sum of money to film the session because they thought it may contain a Nazi theme.  Mosley has stated more than once in court that had he wanted a Nazi themed session, he’d have been disappointed in what he got.  One of the women, a strikingly tall dark haired model for Northern Spanking, is a native German speaker, and in the video, she is heard speaking German.  So? Well, obviously, that means it’s a Nazi Sex Orgy! Oh did I forget to mention THAT? This spanking session, which contained caning, and other beatings, is being called a sex orgy.  Had I wanted a sex orgy, and I got that, I’d have been doubly disappointed!  Anyway, the theme for the scene was a prison scene.  The girl, as well as Mosley can be heard speaking German because they felt it was a much harsher language and seemed right at the time for the scene.

I can vouch for the fact that people do things in spanking scenes that are meant as a joke, comical, or sarcastic.  The fact of the matter is, that no one is to SEE them!  Funny blunders, and certainly extremely non-PC ones, are made, and thats what editing is for.  All of this stuff is simply to have a good time.  The paper, upset that solid proof of Nazism wasn’t involved, only paid the poor Woman E, something to the tune of $24k.  Poor darling.  Even better? She was just TOO emotionally stressed to appear in court.

Emotionally stressed my ass! What about the models who have put their entire lives on the line to defend Mosley and what they stand for? They’ve not been emotionally stressed you think?

In this process, Paul and Lucy from Northern Spanking have experienced a lot of damage.  The girls in the session were all thought to be NSI models.  Some were, but not all.  NSI would never give out model information, and thus, THEIR lives were fucked with.  I cannot see a case like this ever winning in the United States.  Producers of spanking videos, are not public figures, and what they do in their lives, is not vital to public interest.  Not that I don’t respect and look up to Paul and Lucy a lot, but in the general public, no one gives a fuck.  Same with Mosley.  He was basically the head of a form of NASCAR.  Who cares? If the Giants football coach was found to have had an affair with a dominatrix, would it be absolutely necessary for the public to know? No

I guess I am thankful that here the tabloids focus on celebrities.  In the UK, they are vicious, attacking everyday people, ruining lives, and turned people’s worlds upside down.  Most people don’t pursue these attacks by tabloids because of the turmoil caused.  Women A, B, C, and D, as well as Mosley have.  I hope News of The World is shaking in their little pink boots.  And I ask, how do people like the NoW editors sleep at night, knowing how many people’s lives they’re ruining?

I shall join Niki and ask you to join Northern Spanking.  You don’t have to become a lifetime member or anything, but join for a month or two, as it’s now their only income, and as hard as it is to imagine, this is more often done out of love for spanking, than the money.

Kate James